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What are the pluses There are no hidden costs. You pay small fee (3 usd a month is not a big sum even for Russia :)) and you have unlimited communication with Russian brides possibility to exchange email with all the ladies listed in our agency free use of online translator to communicate with ladies who do not know any foreign language possibility to put your photos in photo rating and receive attention to your profile from thousands Russian women notification from our special mailer when a girl rated your photo for maximum points (she thinks you are sooo handsome, what do you wait for? - write to her!!!) many ways to contact the women on the site ask our psychologist a question and he will help you understand what is happening with your Russian bride or between you the site that is free ofscammers ( read below about our special anti-scam polity) seek the advice of professional matchmakers working on the site - managers of the site online support chat where you can ask your question, ask for help with some problems, learn some information you will always see who is online today and can answer you immidiately or who was on the site today or very passive and rarely visit the site What are the minuses If you want to find a girl younger than you for 30 years you very probably won't have success here(even if you have read a lot of articles and a lot of words on Russian dating sites that Russian women prefer much older men, it is not about us, sorry. In our opinion, at present it helps scammers to operate and dating sites have money from men. But it is not true, in most cases. If you want to register to have a lot of letters from women , then it is better to do it on a dating site where you pay for each letter that you sent or receive from a lady. There you will have tons of letters each day. We suggest ladies to write to men, but there are not many Russian brides in fact who can do it, they are used to men being active and they wait for initiative from you, If you want a site full of girls of model type, blonde, tall, waiting just for you- no, you won't find them here in big numbers, we fight with scammers and we do not open such girls when we see they are scammers(we have a program that helps to find it out). We want to make our site a safe place, communication with a scammer is a fairy tale that finishes in broken hearts and broken hopes. We have only real Russian girls here, girls for marriage, not scammers with models photo. If you look just for dating, you are married and seek adventures, seek in other places. We work only with girls and clients with serious intentions. We do not sell contact information of the girls who are in clients of our agency. We are not "mail order brides". We think that this method allows scammers to operate on the site, is difficult to support for men, if you want always to have up-to date information (some girls stop being interested in the service after 1 week of being on the site - find someone or just get disillusioned). This method also in our opinion violates the girls right on safety and anonimity. |
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The most common mistakes men do when |
| 1. Judge women by photos. Glamourous photos, photos as if they are from women's magazine attract their attention. It is interesting but 80 percent of letters are received by 20 percent of women. But they are not more beautiful, they are not more interesting than others. They have just better pictures than others. |
Men do not pay attention to psychological test result ,to compatibility. But they will live with a woman, not with pictures. They will be unhappy if
they have beautiful wife that is always makes rows or constantly nagging and does not want to sleep with them.Quite recently I talked to a man from Spain, he was complaining that he had got acquainted by Internet with several Russian ladies, they were completely breathtaking in their pictures, but when he came to meet them they were just average, not superordinary not like those models on the podiums. He was walking along the streets of St-Petersburg and saw many beautiful Russian girls walking along the street, they were not in hurry, talked with their friends, lauphed a lot. Why then did he meet Russian ladies who were beautiful in the pictures, but were tired, dull, not funny? Yes, it can happen also. If a girl exausts herself with work (she has, for example, to care alone for her child or she needs to rent an apartmnet and it is very expensive in Russia ) she looks not her best, and you can't imagine how she changes after rest or after she does not need to work so hard. By accident, all the Russian girls that he met were hard working ones and he saw them after full working day (in one case after a night shift). And he saw in the street Russian girls who had holidays or were students and so had vacations or even does not work at all as they had boyfriends who cared for them. That's where from such a difference! |
2. The second mistake the men who are looking for a Russian bride do is the result of this also. Many men look for models in appearance, they want to
be an envy of all their friends. But they want to live with normal girls- warm, kind-hearted, faithful.But most girls who look like models do not want real relationship, they want just men's admiration, they want to be the center of attention. But they do not need closeness, intimacy, warmth. The second reason is that even if there is such a paragon who combines model appearance with warmth and comfort. They are very rare. We have a joke about it: Two men are sitting near a fireplace. One man says looking in the fire. I was never married in my life. - Why? - I was alwasy searching for a perfect woman for me. - And? Did not you find her? - No, I found her. But I was not a perfect man for her. It is a sad joke but I have met some men who were acting like this and I saw them on different sites for more than 10 years. |
3. The next mistake is a choice! Men just can't stop (some women are into this also). The best is an enemy of good enouph.They find someone, meet,
everything is all right but they continue to look and look for new women. They are poisoned by an idea that maybe somewhere there is a
person with whom it is better, who is more interesting.
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4. Men register to the site, but they do not want to place any photo there or they place a photo where it is impossible to see them or they put
terrible photos. Some men are under illusion that pictures do not mean anything for women. It is men who choose by pictures, but women prefer them to
write clever words, write about their profession, their hobbies. Yes, it is good when you write a lot about you, but for women a lot is determined by
your pictures. They do not want men to look like models (in fact, men-models will most likely frighten them away, but they want to see your smile, to
see your eyes, to feel calmness and reliability that comes from you, for some it is important to see you in your home. And only then they will read
about your hobbies, about your interests and what you like. They are often easy victims of scammers - scammers do not pay attention to pictures and
ready to answer or write to them themselves without asking for new pictures.
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5. About 50 percent of men who register on the site prefer to sign on and then wait for Russian beautiful girls to write to them. Guess who has more
letters, more choice and more chances to find their love, these 50 percent who are just sitting and waiting for their dream girl to write to them or
men who are active themselves, who search themselves and who answer also women who write to them? Yes, the second group of men has much higher chances,
especially if to take into account that many women do not want to be the initiators of the communication, they have traditional views on this and
regard men as an active side.
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6. But the strategy that surpsises me most is the attitude of some men who need 10 times (or something like that) of confirmation that this particular
woman wants to communicate with them. They send women a wink, receive a letter or a wink in return, then send her a postcard, receive something, then
wink, wink, wink, after 6 such "signs of attention" most women begin to get tired from this and stop answering. Then they continue to send these signs
to the women of his choice. But most Russian girls are already not interested in them.
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7. The last common mistake is that men want to find many women to visit in Russian and only then come, but in reality women who were interested in
them loose interest after some time and search for somebody else, men continue their search in the attempt to find more ladies, but again, some
ladies do not want to wait for him unknown amount of time and after some time when he does not answer when he can come they stop being interested in
him. It is an endless process for them
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